If she expresses interest in converting, be prepared to talk about your beliefs, and help her find ways to learn about and follow them. Its not only adultry. When I think about it now it sounds absolutely mental and there is no way I would do it again. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program. Mormon children are advised, in their religion, to refrain from dating until they are at least 16 years of age. Up to this point, she has just assumed that all atheists are innately evil people. Let them explore and see the many people who love Heavenly Father and serve him with all their heart. As a married female resident, I wanted to offer you the other side of this Your husbands love you, and miss you.
The dots are extremely close for every LDS person, its just extremely hard to connect them. I am the same good faithful woman I always was, just on a different path than I ever expected, one full of insights and blessings I never knew could exist. Love Notes for Him. I have seen love prevail over beliefs. When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe. It is helpful to know that there are others who are experiencing the same emotions and to hear about your coping methods and advice. Now just ask yourself what are the odds of her thinking her way out that crazy nonsense.
With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God. I feel as if I am a single parent. I just feel relieved that there are others of you out there in the same boat as me. Typical American girls have the government to make them feel secure. Should we try to heed their counsel and marry in the Church. So, kudos to you for having such a wonderful relationship for so long and getting through step 1 and 2 and matching. I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of ur marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years.
Also, as Joanna points out, men and women already inhabit a separate culture. Let's talk about kids. I think we need to steer far away from medicine…. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed.