It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love. You are expecting him to be like your exes and you want him to be the one to chase you. I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you. I've read through some stuff there and it all seems pretty tame so far. Maybe it won't be a big deal. This can keep the relationship from getting too exclusive, and spending time with more people can give you a wider variety of things to do.
Her experience may or may not be typical, but it is something to consider. Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. I had many, many friends who moved this quickly during courtship, too. Our communication is almost gone to none, he needs a lot a lot of alone time to achieve his career while i am really worried that how much longer i can live like this!!. I knew that I couldn't possibly be alone. I would love to someday find myself sitting in the pew with you, sharing this amazing journey. But of course this does not mean that mixed religion children cannot grow up to be LDS stalwarts.
Mormons have a well-known code of health, called the Word of Wisdom. If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away. Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses. This is not to say that I need to be the center of attention all the time, but just that I think all the time spent alone makes it more difficult to connect with each other.
Joanna has written a good answer here. The first vision is something she taught endlessly as a missionary - same with the Book of Mormon translation. Then she can have a chance to actually be the individual she is, and they can have an adult conversation about their future and whether or not they have one. All of which will remind her that she wants you to convert so you can be together for eternity. In truth if I had a chance to "do it all again" type of thing. I can accept her, and she's told me she can accept me The challenging part for me now is the idea of putting my kids through the brainwashing.